Top 11 qualities of a good wife

So many people thought that being in trouble is when you are sacked on your work or been punished. Been sacked or punish is just a temporary issue that can be resolved.

But there is a   trouble which you can subject yourself into, which if proper care is not taking your life will be put in danger. A good example of this is marriage.

Marriage is said to be a union between husband and wife. When you are married you’ve been committed, committed should either be good or bad, they are both called committed, something that cannot be resisted only if you are ready to sacrifice it.

 ”Be a little aware before you are trapped! 

Marriage is a trap: you will be trapped by the woman and the woman will be trapped by you.It is a mutual trap. And then legally you are allowed to torture each other forever.”

Osho

   Having a bad marriage occurs when you have a bad husband or wife, when you have a bad partner in your marriage there are three things involved.

·         You bear it, what if you can’t bear it?

·         You sacrifice it, if you can’t sacrifice it?

·         Then be ready for perpetual agony.

This is not referring to women only, men is also included.

The unavoidable question here is, if a bad marriage can cause someone’s life, what can we do to prevent having a bad marriage? This can only be prevented by getting to know the nature of the woman you wants to propose to before marring. You can do this by, knowing her character, her background and also her ways of living before proposing to her.

Nevertheless, you can find the qualities of a good wife in this content

Who is a good spouse / How can you identify a good spouse?

The word relationship: Is the mysterious word everybody is talking about it. Living in it, and nobody seems to be tired of it. Some claim to be tired of it but only stay away for some season, and then bounce back into it again.

                Nevertheless; these are quality that will help identifying a good wife.

                           She must be respectful

A wife is a person who shows respect to her partner, but bear it in mind that respect should not be given by one partner and obtain by the other, no, it should be practice by both partner. A good wife is a kind that is respectful and obedient to her partner, a marriage where there is no respect doesn’t last, and nothing good comes out of it but havoc. Top 10 factors that breaks marriage relationship.

                        She is always decent

A good wife is a lady who dresses decently, looking decently whole the time, in respectful of an occasion, place or anywhere she found herself. She is always presentable. A good wife is always neat and well kept, it is good to dress decently and is also good to keep that dress neat and clean in a presentable manner.

                      She is always truthful

A good wife, is who hide nothing from her partner but tell him about the past, present and hopefully her future, the way she wants it to be like, tell him whole is needed of him to know about her. Men love a lady who is open, a lady who hide no secret from her partner, is a good partner, and together they built a great future. It is good to be sincere with your man irrespective of how difficult the case might be, being plain does not make stupid, and it is a righteous thing to do.

                       She always support her partner

A good wife is a lady who will believe in her partner, vision, and gives her partner support to conquer his dreams. Men love a woman who supports there affairs, especially when they broke, seeing there partner right beside them is encouraging. That is why it is good to  get to know the person you wants to propose to before getting married.

                She is a home maker by the wisdom.                       placed on her She

You can identify a good wife by how good she can build a home, she is a home maker by the wisdom, placed in her, and she will make a great family out of nothing.

A good woman can make a family to stand very well. This can come in a way of managing things in the house, but when you have a woman who spends extravagantly in the house, believe me nothing good can ever come out of that very family. These are things to consider before settling down in marriage. 

 

                      She always trust her partner

A good partner is a kind that is not jealous, she always avoids anything that will make her man jealous, because she is bearing in mind that it breeds mistrust.

Jealousy doesn’t play a good role in a marriage.

                     “As far as your ego is concerned and your jealousy is concerned,

my whole work here is to help you become so loving that the energy that

Becomes jealousy is transformed into love. And you know perfectly

well that jealousy always follows love.

A man who does not love is not jealous. Jealousy is almost like a shadow of love.

If you can grow your love, it takes over the whole energy of jealousy and

transforms it into love. It is an alchemical change. And I can say it with

guarantee, because it has happened in me, it has happened in my

thousands of sannyasins who have forgotten what jealousy is.

Their love is too much.”

Osho  

jealous in marriage can be as a result of love, but it should have limit because not all men tolerate jealousy, it is those men who understand that jealousy is part of love that can let it go.

                               Fidelity

Fidelity and a commitment to the relationship: Fidelity is a fact which should be found in a good wife, a lady who did not have a “roaming eye” and who can whole heartedly commit to one man. A fidelity lady, commitment plus willingness works in a relation even when the going gets tough.

So many marriages has broken apart because of infidelity. Before going into marriage these are what to consider first because it is a basic quality of a good wife.

              A good wife should be real and.                                   presentable

A good wife should be a real lady not artificial, super spiritual or overly carnal.

                She is always proud of her man

A good wife is a lady who is always proud of her man in any circumstance giving him her support whole the time. Having a wife that can be proud of you in any circumstances is what all men dreams of, a woman that can stand for her husband even when she is been pressurise by the mother

              She must be hard working and.                                     courageous

A good partner is a hard working kind personal responsibility, ownership and courageous lady. Who can see her part in relationship dynamically and own it. Also emotional stable, developing herself personally and take responsibility for her emotional experience.

                 A lady who is honest, timely, loving and                 communicating

 Honest communication is a men top priority, a process where a lady is honest perhaps even volunteer’s information and confidently ask for her needs, wants to be met, and also see the truth and tell like it is, communicating with kindness, communicating without being critical, but cares about preserving his and her dignity.