How to live a happy life in 9 simple steps

A happy life produces something great life. Some people do not know the important of happiness because they thought it is just an ordinary thing.

Happiness contributes a lot in terms of making progress in life. When a life lacks happiness, it deprives you of so many things which cannot be quantified. Do you know that getting worried always is what contributes to failure; this is because there is no how you can be worried and also concentrate in pursuing your life goals.

“Better to be happy than wise.”  John Heywood               

Getting worried is natural, it happens to everybody, the issue is that it should have limit. You can experience it when an unpleasant thing happened. Practicing it can put you through what you cannot handle or bear.

But what about happiness? You are entitled to choose between this two words Happiness and worrying. Well, if I am to choose, I will choose happiness, and if I was ask to choose for you, i will still choose happiness for you because all i want for you is the best.

There are things you can do to make yourself happy, let’s look forward to them

Love yourself

You cannot make something good out of your life if you don’t love yourself. When you love yourself, your life will secure happiness. In fact you can go extra miles to find anything you want in life. The bible said. Love your neighbour as you love yourself. Yes people obeyed that word; they even love their neighbour more than their own life. 

For the bible to say “Love your neighbour as you love yourself”

This is telling us that we must love ourselves first, and then love our neighbour the same way we love ourselves.

 But the unavoidable question here is. Do we love ourselves? We tell our friend “I love you” and husband and wife tells each other “I love you” very good, if you do not love yourself, then you must learn how to do it, there is a simple way to tell yourself I love you and a way to prove it.

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Tell yourself I love you, if you don’t mind, say it with your whole heart.

   To prove it, you will check your whole self and find out what your health need, especially food. Since you are with the money go out there and get it for yourself, you deserve it.

Somebody that values himself supposed to celebrate his self always, doing all this will make your life better.

 Be positive always

Positivity plays a vital roles life, it make a heart free from grudges. A situation whereby a life is subjected in negative things, believe me, that heart can never be free from evil. To live a happy life is as simple as eating, sounds funny, it is all about putting aside the odd thought in your life and move freely. 

Trying to make progress in life without being positive is a waste of time. How? This is because, when your heart is free from odd thought, you have fresh different ideal that can help you to succeed.

“All season are beautiful for the person who carries happiness within" Horace Friess   

 “Learn to let go. That is the key to success” The Buhhda

Nursing your past experience with you can make you remain stagnant, because it is just like somebody who doesn’t have future. But when it is put aside all your focus will be on how to make progress.  Letting go of it is a way of create happiness into life your which is supposed to be done normally, it will also make you look more healthier and fresh  

Unfortunately so many people has passed through pains due to the mistake of nursing their past encounter, they forgot that happiness is the key to success. You can make yourself happy by looking forward to a new thing.

Lay off your hand from something that does not give you joy

Those things you do that does not give you joy lay off your hand from it. Doing something that does not suite your lifestyle is absolutely wasting of time, but those thing that you derive joy why doing? Keep doing it. The good thing about it is that, you do it because it makes you happy, and you also do it because it will help you in future. It is obvious that so many people today do not care about their happiness, they only do things the way they see it in life, not knowing that it is life risking.

 The best favour you can do to your life is to make yourself happy, why not try it today

Following your mindset helps in getting something out of life, it is your mind that that direct you in everything you do in life. It can never give you a wrong ideal. Doing things to please people and displease yourself is bad, doing things that is against your mind doesn’t help, so avoid doing it, following it will not only make you happy but will also make you follow the right track.

                    Go out for walk

It depresses me to be indoors all the time. At times being indoor and a bad environment can be depressing; the best and fast solution to it is to go out for walk, where there is live event, it can help in making you happy. Some people thought that treating bad is when they are been maltreated by others, not knowing that the worst maltreatment is when you keep yourself unhappy. Even when you are been persecuted, you have the right to choose on how to follow it either by letting it border you or by letting it go.

Life is precious when you handle it with care. “The way you treat yourself will determine the positive outcome of it”

Living in a bad environment also contributes in getting one worried. In any environment that does not give joy or environment you are not comfortable with no matter any reason, the best thing to do is to change your environment; this is by going out for holiday or traveling. Including the office where you are not comfortable don’t say let me manage it, no, the best is to avoid it, what matters is your health and happiness.

Always interact with experience people

When you are faced with life challenges you cannot bear. Having a person that is more experienced than you do can also be helpful, he will give you an advice that a non-experience person can give you.

At times having an unreasonable person with you can put you through pains; this is because he offers you nothing than an advice that can make you begin to doubt you reason of your existence. I am not saying you should not make friends, no, not that, I mean make a friend you can learn something from, a friend that can give your life a meaning and also a friend that can always make you happy.

Always express your feeling

So many people have put their life into horrible pains due to lack of expression. Expression is something that when you fail to share it out, you end up been hooked up.

    Expressing yourself is a way of sharing what you know or what you suggested. When you suggest on something always feel free to express it, don’t mind who is around you or who you are. Always be proud of who you.

            Nevertheless, if expressing your thought can make you happy, why don’t you do it and save yourself from pains.

Don’t be ashamed

For you to accomplish your goals in life takes happiness to come through. Anybody who is ashamed of his/herself can never focus on his dream, sometimes I imagine what on earth can make a man to be ashamed of himself, this sounds bad. At times seeing an age mate living so big can lead to asking yourself questions. Don’t question your life because in everyone’s life there is something special in it, you are well designed and magnified by God. Again, comparing your life to others is bad, beauty or not beauty try and avoid questioning your life.

Everyone’s life have reason and meaning in life. Lack of improvement in academics aspect can also contribute to questioning your life, you might have something special than the person you are comparing your life with. My advice is, if your life is part of this try and avoid it, always be proud of who you are, and also be happy in any situation you find your to.

Believe in yourself

If you really want to be happy, then be ready to believe in yourself. When you understand your life and know your capability, it gives joy, you cannot make progress in life if you do not know the areas you’re not doing well in life.

Understanding yourself very well, those areas you are not performing well you can then put it in order.

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